You feel like you made a mistake and ended up with the wrong person.
Find clarity about your relationship without losing yourself.
One-on-one coaching for women in a relationship, engaged, or married.
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Does this sound like you?
You don't understand how you got here. This is someone you loved so well, someone who used to love you so well, and now it feels like everything between you is breaking. You keep asking yourself if it's possible to go back to the way things were. And if it is, what happens if he isn't willing to try?
You've tried everything you know. You've had the conversation with him more times than you can count. You've opened up to the people you trust most, hoping someone would know what to say, and you've taken their advice. And still, nothing has really changed.
By now, you're almost sure you made the wrong decision. Some days you scroll through post after post telling you to leave, that you deserve better, that you should have walked away long ago. Part of you agrees. But another part of you isn't ready to give up yet, because you still wonder if there's something you haven't tried.
If you're a Christian, it may feel even more complicated. You've been told that divorce is wrong and that you should forgive and keep going. You want to do what's right, but you're hurting, and the advice you keep hearing doesn't seem to touch what you're actually going through.
More than anything, you want to see your relationship clearly and make a decision you can live with.
If that's where you are, I'd love to help.
How we work together
It starts with a free 30-minute discovery call. You don't need to have your thoughts in order or know exactly what to say. Just come as you are, tell me what's going on, and we'll see together whether working with me is the right next step for you.
If we decide to move forward, we'll begin with an onboarding call, where we set your priorities for our three months together and agree on what you want to be different by the end.
From there, we'll meet one-on-one by video or phone call, at times that work around your schedule. Our sessions won't just be conversations. You'll have a few simple, practical steps to work on each week, and you can reach me directly when something comes up between our calls.
My goal is to help you make a decision you're at peace with. I'll walk you through a clear process that helps you see what's really happening in your relationship and what's right for you. The decision is always yours, so whatever you choose, you can choose it with confidence.
Hi, I'm Mercy
Less than a year into my marriage, I was sure I had chosen the wrong man. I was worried, hurt, and confused, and I was even considering divorce. I kept looking at my husband and wondering how this could be the same man I had promised forever to. I felt lost and didn't know what to do.
What I couldn't see then was how much my own posture was feeding the distance between us. When I began to change how I showed up, he began to respond, and today I can't imagine my life without him.
I'm a certified relationship counselor and coach, and I help women who fear they chose the wrong partner find clarity without losing themselves. Some of the women I work with rebuild their relationships. Some realize it's time to walk away, and do it with their peace and dignity intact.
I've worked with over 100 women at different stages of their relationships, from dating to engaged to married, helping them find their next right step. I can help you do the same.
Who this is for
- Women who are dating, engaged, or married and afraid they chose the wrong partner.
- Women who want help, whether or not he's willing to join.
- Women who are ready to look at their relationship closely, including their own side of it.
What happens next
Steps
- Apply: Fill out a short form so I can understand what you're going through.
- We talk: If it looks like a good fit, I'll invite you to a free 30-minute discovery call.
- You decide: If we both feel it's right, we'll plan our time together.